As a follow-up to Tenet #2, we should take time to reflect upon our current motivations, hopes, and dreams. What inspires us to live our lives, and what do you ultimately hope to achieve? In particular, you should consider adopting greater retrospection and reconsideration if you currently prioritize sexual attention and manifesting your sexual fantasies. Just because you had a life goal or ambition earlier in your life does not mean that you need to continue actively working towards those life goals and ambitions. People change over time, and therefore it is natural for people to want to change what to live for as well. Never lead life in a straight path, but actively dare to pivot.